You’re telling yourself you are afraid of hurting her feelings. You’re not intentionally trying to hurt her or lie, but that is what you are doing. You didn’t get into this with the intention of lying, but that’s what’s happening. We get caught up in thinking love is all about romance, but that’s only a small part of what lesbian love, and love in general, is about.You also tell yourself if you stick with it a little longer, maybe love will show up or she’ll break up with you. Love is also caring and respecting someone as a unique and special individual on this planet who deserves your honesty about your own self in the relationship. The kindest and most loving thing you can do in this situation is to tell her the truth. She’ll be hurt if she really cares for you, but she can then move on to find someone who can really treasure her. She’s most likely going to say she wants to stay connected, but you’re going to have to change the rhythm of how you spend time together.
Don’t keep spending every Friday and Saturday night with her. Christ’s gospel is often referred to as The Plan of Eternal Progression or The Great Plan of Happiness.If we choose to shift our focus from perfection to progression, it will become easier for us to let go of the illusion of a best partner.A long distance relationships needs fun and excitement to stay alive (well besides many other things that are outside the scope of this book) and you need to make sure that the fun and excitement does not miss.If you want your girlfriend to be excited about talking to you over and over again for hours in a row, and never think about dating other guys; you need to give her good, positive emotions so that she has something to look forward to.
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Likewise, perfectionism, personalization, what if thinking, and the comparison trap create storms within the minds of singles.